SESH UPDATE:

If things don't work out with my backyard, it is a very likely possibility that we could go on a pleasant hike somewhere (which, in a lot of ways, would be less stressful/difficult)

we would be gone a long enough time

people would have an excuse to be out of the house rather than "uhhh im going over to sean's?"

we would be isolated enough

it would be a prettier experience

I wouldn't have to deal with having a bunch of people at my house with my parents home

makes for better memories